Last week was my birthday . He fell on a Monday , and since September is always a stressful time , my husband and I decided to officially celebrate on Saturday after day.happy birthday flowers This means that the day of my birthday, it was a Monday so alone. I also started the day with a 7:00 abdominal ultrasound to check for gallstones, which , if you must know , is a bad way to start the week .happy birthday flowers
I managed to call my husband and ask if we could go a little for lunch on my birthday ,happy birthday flowers and he had planned to have lunch with a friend, a miscalculation in his head how long would ultrasound. He said : "I think we could go for lunch today - Do you have a doctor's appointment ? "happy birthday flowers
" If . At seven o'clock . "
" Well, I thought it would last longer. "
" You thought it would be a period of five hours ? "
" Oops" .
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I asked if I could join him for lunch at least he and his friend ,happy birthday flowers and a tribute to his friend when he discovered it was my birthday , he bowed and left immediately enjoyed our lunch together.
Then my husband came home from work and said, " What's for dinner? "happy birthday flowers
" Hmmm , is my birthday . 'm Not cooking. "
" Well , I will not cook well . "happy birthday flowers
" Looks like we'll order pizza then . "
happy birthday flowers " Very good . Hey , you should get this Domino lava cake , as it is his birthday. This could be, like, your birthday cake ! "happy birthday flowers
happy birthday flowers I never asked for Domino cake lava, and I * am a sucker for a good lava cake . And pictures always look good, so I shrugged and thought , why not ?happy birthday flowers
happy birthday flowers Let me assure you that these cupcakes were washed, in fact, little man , and why you need three stacked like a little tower, is only because they are just sad and pathetic gift chocolate as chocolate treats will.happy birthday flowers
happy birthday flowers I looked washed cupcakes sad and said : " Do I get a candle ? " My husband got up and said : " Yes We go to a candle, and we sing" He reached into the kitchen for a few minutes , and then returned to table with empty hands ! .happy birthday flowers
happy birthday flowers" I could not find candles. Here, we'll use that. "
He struck a match ,happy birthday flowers and was on my cupcake washed sad and pathetic . I looked at him , curling into a black strand twisted and burned . It was like putting a sweater butterflies eaten in a mangy dog .flowers happy birthday
It burned before children could not even sing: " And maaany moorrrrre .... "flowers happy birthday
All for some reason I wanted to mourn .
" It could have a real cake ?flowers happy birthday " I asked my husband , trying to keep my voice level , my tone light .
He saw , however , shake my lips , glitter eyes and said quietly , "Well , you know, we're going out with friends on Saturday, do not think .... "flowers happy birthday
flowers happy birthday I nodded and tried to control my emotions stupid . I have 38 years old , you need an idiot cake anyway ? I remember feeling tired and thought of ultrasound early in the morning and some of the health consequences that may have.flowers happy birthday
We go out and play with our friends this weekend , and we had a blast . Towards the end of the night , my husband said : "I am the cake : who wants cake ! " And he pulled out a chocolate cake that , unbeknownst to me , took the shop at some point during the day. We sat at the picnic tables outdoors at an ice cream shop and served. my friend laughed and said, " Your husband told my husband that he should pick up a cake for us laugh and said, ' What , Heather 7" I laughed with them, but . ? then I thought : " Yes . Yeah , I am. "flowers happy birthday
So I learned something about myself this weekend , something I never knew .
For my birthday , I was not angry because my husband got me a gift ( I said to save our money and wanted to say ) , I do not need flowers or a romantic dinner one night luxury , or even with my husband (although all these things would be fine ) .
But the cake? Apparently , I have the cake, Dang . And it better be chocolate, and is better than icing on it, and better not get into a pizza shop and has better real candles and burning a little before I can even sad even blow .
Damn, I knew it was so hard?
I'm sure there are more good in this story implications , as the U.S. obsession with sweet things , or have a ritual meal to celebrate something or pathological selfishness expressed in an anniversary that is ingrained in us from a age.
I'm not sure I'm worried , though. I really enjoyed my cake.
What are the things you need to feel special for her birthday ?
